What do you do if your kids want a dog? Before getting a dog, the whole family has to think about if it is the right thing for them or not. Of course there are always two sides to every story which means the positive and negative aspects have to be considered very carefully.
Positive Aspects
It is widely known that a dog brings a lot of responsibility for their owner. This can have a positive effect on your children, because they can learn this at an early age. It might trigger that they learn to not put their own needs first, and to learn how to care for others. In addition to that, it can support their social behavior, as well as encourage contact with fellow human beings. The dog can be an emotional support for your children and yourself. Some experts say that dogs have therapeutic effects on children, because they represent a positive attitude, bring the feeling of comfort, love and support unconditionally. This can help in difficult and sad situations in your children’s life. The purchase of a dog can also improve or support your families health. Firstly, it can decrease the likelihood of your kids developing allergies. Secondly your child benefits from it, because it gets them to move and exercise outdoors. Also, your kids get used to a daily routine which gives them structure in their life.
Negative Aspects
Of course the financial situation of your family has got a huge impact on the decision to acquire a dog. It is important to realistically calculate all costs beforehand. The costs include the purchase of the dog which is dependent on the breeds and where you purchase it from, the equipment, the food, dog obedience school, insurance, protection in the house and the garden, vet bills and also costs when you go on holidays. When you go on holiday with your dog, you have to check extra costs for the flights and the accommodation. If you go on holiday without your dog, our dog minders are the perfect and cheap option for you to leave your dog without having to worry about them. Another aspect to consider is that a dog is a long term commitment, because they can grow up to 14 years old and sometimes even older. This limits the flexibility in the family for a long time.
Breeds for Family and Children
We have collected a list with dog breeds which are best for children or best for families in general, in two of our other blog posts. Remember that not only the basic characteristics of a certain breed have an influence on the behavior of the dog, but also the dog training and what experience the dog gains with humans throughout their life. Depending on the breed, the dog might need more attention, exercise or grooming.
Are You Prepared for a Dog?
Here is a checklist to see if you and your family are ready and set to get a dog.
- Everyone in the family agrees. You should not get a dog just for your children, because the dog will suffer from that. He might not get the training and attention he needs
- No one in the families has allergies
- Your landlord allows it
- There is always someone who can walk the dog every day and often enough, as well as feeding them regularly and exercise with them
- You also might need extra time for grooming
- You are willing to show your kids how to proper handle the dog
- You calculated realistic costs and are able to afford it. Also unexpected costs resulting from a vet bill
- Someone can take care of your dog while you are on holidays. Take a look here; we have great, loving and affordable dog minders for you
